The
homeschool inquisition began many years ago and the war wages
on.....
When they question you, your motives, your reasons, your choices....how
will you answer them?
Are you prepared for the next set of questions coming at you from the
homeschool battlefield?
Of course you are, because you have the truth on your side. You may
lose a squirmish or two but in the end the one who has the truth will
win.
To help you prepare here are a few survival tips:
Inquisition
Survival Tips
Homeschool Inquisition Tip #1: Be
honest.
Homeschool Inquisition Tip #2: Know Your homeschool's
strengths and weaknesses.
Homeschool Inquisition Tip #3: Be friendly and smile...they
may just be curious.
Homeschool Inquisition Tip #4: Be prepared with facts.
Homeschool
Inquisition Tip #5: Know the current homeschool inquisition questions
and how you will respond to them- hopefully with the truth, facts and
love.
Homeschool Inquisition Tip #6: Ask questions back and be respectful of
their decisions.
Homeschool
Inquisition Tip #7: Try to understand the motives behind their
questions and keep your desire to put up defenses in check.
Homeschool Inquisition Tip #8: Love your children, and show
you care about their education.
The best
course of action to survive a homeschool inquisition is to make sure
your motives and actions and beliefs
are honorable and based on the truth.
Then educate your child as only you can do with positive, supportive, belief
in them and in their abilities.
Yes,
it is true we will make mistakes but we are driven not by monetary
gains but by a desire for our children to succeed, for our children to
get a great education, and for the hope to instill into our children
direction, peace, and a step towards a wonderful future.
Fight
for what is best for your child...whatever that may be. That may mean
having them attend a public school or a private school or to continue
being
homeschooled.
But be forewarned, there is an
educational battlefield. They want your children
to get the "same" education. Their concern is disguised as if they are
concerned about the education of your child but the truth is their
motives are not always so honorable.
Stand for and act on what is best for your child and when the
inquisition starts you will be prepared.
So what questions can you expect at the next homeschool inquisition?
Homeschool
Inquisition: Socialization
It is not about socialization anymore....why, because we won that battle.
We had the truth and it has destroyed the premise behind the question.
Yes,
our children socialize differently but they do have the ability to
socialize with their peers and opportunities to do so. This is no
longer an issue and in some ways it never was an
issue.
Will you still get this question? Most likely.
We have the truth.
The
internet, local homeschool groups, teen nights, youth groups, scouts,
sports etc.....our children are active within their own circles as much
as they want to be.
PERIOD.
If they act differently it can be
attributed to their personality or to the way they are being treated by
their non homeschooled peers or to the instillation of a different set
of morals and values or to any number of non school related issues. They don't need to attend a
public school to fix socialization issues.
Our
children do need to interact with others. We need to teach them
relationship skills. They need to be a part of this world and to be
aware of how others perceive them. They also need to be informed about
how to respond to those who are less than positive about homeschooling.
I suggest we shower our opposition with love, the truth and a bit of
humor if possible....but that's just me.
In
fact...let's make this fun. Below, I will have a place for you to
submit funny or interesting responses to the socialization
question...Join in and read what other's have to say in response to the
homeschool inquistion.
In
the darkness the light of truth prevails.
Homeschool
Inquisition: Testing
The newest homeschool inquisition focuses and attacks on a basic fear
that we might be missing something.
My
thoughts about this are, outside of the homeschool
setting I have yet to find a class that has actually finished a math
book completely...meaning every lesson...and they think we are missing
something....hmmm. IF they aren't even completing the math books what
else are they missing?
The inquisition might begin as a sly or snide remark
such as "You should get your child
tested," or a more vicious attack quoting something to do with No Child
Left Behind. These are the new types of questions/comments coming from
the homeschool inquisition front.
They will
wind up their stance with..."Don't you think homeschoolers should be
subjected to the same standards and testing as every other school?"
They will then usually refer to No Child Left Behind and
claim they are addressing the issues we have concerns about.
So let's look at testing and make sure the truth is on our side....I
already know it is but..
just for fun...let's discuss it anyway.
1. What is
the purpose of testing?
Ideally, to tell us what our child knows about a subject.
Truthfully, it is only a guage of what they don't know and is not an
accurate test of what they do know.
Think about this....how much can a multiple choice or T/F type of test
reveal about what you know about a subject?
Example: Let's say I have been studying knitting.
A
couple of experts in the field design a test about knitting...they make
broad questions related to knitting and cover a wide range of known
knitting issues. They make a really good test covering terminology and
all facets of knitting known to man.
Now, I've studied knitting
by actually knitting. I can knit sweaters, socks, hats, gloves and have
in general gained a great deal of knowledge about knitting ...so I take
the test to prove to someone I don't know that I know how to
knit.
The questions however, minimally cover sweater knitting and
needle
knitting ...instead one huge section covers loom knitting of
which I haven't ever encountered. Another whole section
covers
the names of stitches...which I know how to do but don't know the
technical names. Now I'm a little stressed and accidentally skip a
question and mark a whole section wrong on the answer key. The end
result is I fail the testor do poorly.
Now
I didn't fail because I didn't know about knitting or how to knit but
because the test failed to ask me about what I do know.
Education for everyone.
It is important to understand:
Tests are designed shortcuts to try to figure out if most of the
students in a class room
setting are getting:
Minimal amount of appropriate instruction
To verify that they are meeting some
educational requirements
Tests are not designed for homeschoolers.
They are
biased by the nature of their purpose.
Homeschoolers,
often test in a different way along with the traditional methods. The
teachers ask questions and the students tell the answers or demonstrate
what they know or have learned. The students are actively involved in
guiding their learning and while they learn the facts they also gather
and learn much more.
The main benefit of homeschool testing is apparent not by the test
results but by what happens with the results.
If
a child in a class room fails a test...the class doesn't stop and
review and retest and make sure that everyone gets it before going
on...they just go on. However, we can't have the child left behind...so
homework and extra study materials are sent home with the student and
possibly with all of the students(don't want to single anyone out).
The
ones who got it are now getting bored too. The ones who didn't are
getting overwhelmed with trying to grasp one concept while being taught
the next.
Homeschoolers,
by nature, want their children to know the material.
They don't want their children to just be able to pass a test. No, we
want and expect more. We spend more time on a subject to insure they
know the material, if
necessary.
So
a test that tests by an age or projected grade level may or may not be
an accurate assessment of where a homeschooled child is in a particular
subject or subjects.
True, they may need help in a
particular area or it might be that they may have spent a great deal
more time on the basics to insure that the student has all they need to
go on and be successful. The thing is eventually, not only will they
catch up to their peers but because of the foundation they will be able
to
excel beyond what their peers are doing. Standardized tests do not take
this into account...they can't.
2. What do
tests reveal?
The
difference between what you know and don't know is the issue here.
Testing at it's best can give an idea of what a student doesn't know or
hasn't mastered yet but it does not and should not be used as a
reliable indicator of what they do know.
There are too many
variables in testing; the subjectiveness of the test, the
material
taught, the methods used to teach the material, the answers
are at
times variable by curriculum, even the expectations of the teacher and
or the test creator all play a role in the test results.
Keep
in mind also, that most homeschoolers don't spend months or even weeks
preparing the students to take the test. Can other school teachers
truthfully answer how much time is spent on test preparation vs.
actually teaching? How skewed are the results if a class studies how to
pass/take the test and prepares for the standardized test, by
teaching the
students material they know will be on the test...do the students
really benefit from this?
So along comes a homeschooler to take
the test...homeschool teachers do not have access to what is on the
test or
even what to expect...the results probably are therefore more accurate
than what
was obtained for the classroom...that isn't to be left behind.
Also,
while standardized tests may help pinpoint areas that need
work..chances are a homeschool teacher will already know about what
needs to be worked on and is actively doing so.
We homeschool
because we want what is best for our child.
We want them to be successful. We aren't making money from educating
our children and in some cases, homeschoolers are even financially
strapped because they homeschool. We are doing what we
believe is
best.
3. What is
done with test results?
This is where homeschoolers excel....we are
focused on our child's educational success.
Other schools are focused on ????? maybe on success of the students but
they are also focused on other issues as well that affect every child
in the classroom and in some cases in the whole school.
4. Why and
when and what to test?
Should
you ever test your child? Of course, but in a way that makes sense. If
you want to check their progress or to get a general idea of something
you might be missing or just want to know how they compare and want to
do so with a standardized test...test away.
If your school
setting does spelling tests or math tests or other tests use the
results to help them get it right...don't just go on. Don't throw away
one of the best opportunities of homeschooling so that you can finish
the books on time...you
don't have to be tied to schedules.
5. The truth
about testing.
The educational setting has come to rely on
standardized testing as a determining factor of learned knowledge.
However, the truth is testing is a general
assessment and should only be used as a tool to assess progress and to
offer suggestions on areas that need to be focused on...and subsequent
focus on those subjects should be applied.
I ask you to respect my choices as I respect yours.
Together we can create an educational system
that truly works for everyone.
Take the first step: Respect
6. Studying
to pass a test, to gain knowledge or just for fun?
Learning something new is exciting and awesome!
This basic belief is lost in many educational settings.
In
my school, I want my students, my children, to develop a love of
learning. I want to give them the tools to be able to teach themselves
and to find the information they need by themselves. This is a long
process but it can be done.
No child should hate having to go
to school or be bored or frustrated. This happens in the best of
schools and even in some homeschools.
Perhaps a better standardized test of our child's progress might be, to
measure if they know how to learn and love doing it?
If
they love learning or at least know how to learn....they pass.
A+
There will always be homeschool issues...how will you respond to them?
For now....let's have some fun with homeschool inquisition quips, tips
and
stories!
Have you been grilled on homeschooling issues?
Share your inquisition story, your answers to the questions, your solutions to the problems (please be proactive)or about how you deal with the questions you receive about homeschooling.
Or send in a funny quip about the now defunct socializaton issue.